Four years of living between home, school, work, the only way to survive it being that the MTA guys (lots of love for that and only that) still allow you to drink coffee in the subway, unlike all those strange Asians. FYA I am calling Asians (now referring to Tokyo and Hong Kong) all those people that live in Asia regardless of their geographic roots and national identities because I live in NYC and we here believe that there are only a few peoples on Planet Earth: Europeans, Eastern Europeans and Russians, Terrorists, Asians, Africans (only for the real connoisseurs), Spanish, Americans, dah! (it's an onomatopoeia; I can, or should be able to, spell it whatever I want), Arabs, and Alaskans, a new people born in the 2009 election campaign and are Sarah Palin cool - she invented a new cool, different from the old cool, a cool like the sarcastic pyramidal pants we women are wearing, those that are making our ass look un-toned (read: saggy) and/or flat (read: nonexistent), that are tight in the wrong places (ankles) and loose in the, excuse the repetition, wrong places (booty.) Yes, they are comfy and complement our I-hate-being-sexi-today attitude, and they are cool, but the opposite of tube-dress&stilettos cool, which more than half of the population think is cool (don't contradict me, do the math:
|Irina Sheik tight dress|
People who believe that tube tight dresses are cool:
almost all the average 9am-5pm male heterosexual population (of course Donald Trump is included)
- the male extremists from a far away place that shall be left unnamed for politically correctness
- Nicolas Sarkozy (I kid, I kid)
+ almost all the female heterosexual population
- feminists who think that shaving your armpit is worse than vandalizing Simone de Beauvoir grave
+ all non 9am-5pm population (read Hollywood stars)
+ all the fans of red carpets with pimples and huge capabilities to imitate Justin Beaver's and Rhianna's hair styles
+ gay fashion commentators
+ aliens amongst us (I am referring to members of rock bands, of course)
= Majority. q.e.d.)
But, to continue - after reading back to see what I was trying to say before Sarah Palin and her coolness came to my mind (moment that should always be celebrated with all the feast of a few lines about her, because it is not something that happen often, except when I hear something about Russia) - to continue, four monochromatic and season-less years in a city very much grey (yeah, yeah, those who talk about colorful NYC never been in Europe, and colorful does not mean adds, being they neon, or street graffiti) and very much uniform in therms of weather (nowhere have I seen so many women wearing flats and pumps in the showy winter like here), so I blended in but did not pup up. It was fine to lose identity and get by unnoticed, animous, a personification of if-they-are-not-yoga-tights-I-am-not-going-outside daily fashion statement, but what to do when all the reasons for being careless are gone, and you need a new lemon fresh start resembling the carefully picked outfit from when you were16 and you all dressed-up to go shopping at Barney's with your BFF for the first time. Or when you were 30 and you all dressed-up to go shopping at Barney's with your BFF. Or when... you get the point.
Changes of paradigm:
- After work going outs: you are not celebrating the passing of miserable time during midterms and finals anymore, nor fight the stress, so hangovers (due to bad food or Bacchic cocktails) outside birthdays (mainly yours), NYE, and being dumped should be eliminated. On the same token, the evenings are now free like waved kisses in a train stations, so often is the word.
- Wearing what you picked from dry-cleaning over and over again because you don't have time to survey your closet is forbidden
- All those creams in the bathroom - apply them every night, not every other night, not once a week, before the expiration date, like advised on the label
- High hills - for not all streets are paved with reddish cubic stone as they have at Columbia, which destroys even the most stable shoe with a slight attempt of a slim hill. So rock it.
More importantly, the most important, the subject name of this post, the title of my Ten Commandments: Never wear yoga tights again. Never:
-Not on a particularly cold, perhaps uninspiring, Thursday
-Not when you go for a stroll in a park
-Not on weekend days when you go downtown - which I generically call The Village and it starts around 14 Street and ends in the Hudson River.
-Not on a casual Friday at work
-Not when you have nothing clean to wear - in which case it is better to put your dirty jeans in the freezer for 10 minutes and wear them afterwords
-Not when your body screams that you are a young healthy and still able to have babies woman (that time)
-Ok, you can only wear yoga pants in two spaces: in a yoga class and when flying - hopefully organized flying, with a team of stewardesses serving half of plastic glass of water, which is something that I never understood: I want water. I am thirsty. I am not a bird. I can drink all those 100 ml of clear liquid with a sip. Yes, I am wonder-woman that way...I must admit that yoga tights are the best traveling option and they keep (All) the butt covered, not like the low raise jeans the woman on the isle seat on a 13 hours flight while sleeping and unaware was wearing....)
-Also, DO NOT wear tights when you write this post (I hate some of my old habits, like frowning when I read in disbelief, eating sun flower seeds, accepting bad coffee when good coffee is at a street cross distance)
A few more weeks and I am done. I feel like renouncing tights is as difficult and pressuring issue as quitting cigs. I also understand that this post about (not wearing) tights can be very much a shout on the need to see a head doctor, but it must be written and read by the writer a few times, as part of the therapy. I also hope that my fashion patience is a sign of confidence and not the one of I-can't-do-better, thus, the rhythmic leg dance.